Look around you…

IMG_2595.JPGLook around you. Do you see the girl on the right? The pretty one? She’s the one that can get any guy she wants at any time. She’s the kind of girl that you would never find single for a long period of time. She’s the kind of girl that makes everyone’s heads turn when she walks through the door. She’s the kind of girl that every guy would give their attention to. She’s the kind of girl that you know will be well off regardless of where she is or whatever she may be in. But that’s not you…

Now look to your left. Do you see the girl laughing with her boyfriend? The girl that you can see is so in love? She’s the kind of girl hasn’t been single for a really long time. Her relationship probably has been going on for about 2-3 years now or maybe even more. She’s the kind of girl you wish you could be; the kind of girl you know that there is someone to come home to at the end of a long hard day. But that’s not you…

Now look in front of you. The girl standing in front of you, facing you. That’s you. You’re the kind of girl that don’t have a choice but to depend on herself. You’re the kind of girl that never gets the guys. You know that you won’t be well off unless you make something of yourself right now. You know that there is a high possibility that there won’t be someone to come home to at the end of the day. You know it, and you accept it. You must. You’re the kind of girl that lives life as if you know that there won’t be anyone out there that will love you as much as you can possibly love yourself. You’re the girl who never makes heads turns, or capture every guy’s attention. You’re the kind of girl that has to build her self-esteem herself every time when you know a guy doesn’t feel the same way you do. You’re the girl who tries to find confidence in living for the next day. You believe in a better tomorrow. A future where you can be truly happy regardless if you are with someone or not. You doubt yourself sometimes, but you know that whatever happens you must embrace it and just enjoy the ride.

Look behind you. The girl standing behind you was you. She’s the kind of girl that never had the confidence in herself. She’s the kind of girl who would never look at a mirror to see herself, afraid of what she might find in the reflection. She’s the kind of girl who believed in love, that everyone will someday find a love of their own. She’s the kind of girl that also never made heads turn. She’s the kind of girl that wishes she never knew anything when it comes to the idea of love and affection. She’s the girl who believed she’d be well off if there was someone beside her to do life with. That was you.

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